Just Talking

Well, it's been a long time.  We've been on a crazy, emotional ride. But enough of that for now. Today I'd rather talk to you about something that I've been thinking about for a little while now, and just not found made the time to share yet.  Evangelism.

That dreaded 'E' word that seems to strike fear into the hearts of so many - quite sadly, I might add! So what new thoughts can I possibly have to add to this subject? Some new tool or method for making it easier or less daunting?  Not at all.  Quite the opposite actually.

Now, please don't misunderstand me.  I'm not saying that different evangelistic tools don't have their place, because they certainly do!  Two Ways to Live, for example, is brilliant, especially for new Christians (and some long term!) to learn and make sure that they have really understood the gospel - and certainly to share with other people too!  What I am saying, however, is that I think we can tend to over formalise the idea of "Evangelism".  We can take it out of the realms of being prepared to share the hope that we have (1 Peter 3:15), and elevate it to something akin to a magical unicorn hunt, where we feel as though only those who have been trained in this very specific art have the skills or the courage to capture the elusive unicorn.  

We can get so worked up about it, and so formulaic in the way that we try to talk to people about Jesus, that we just plain make it weird.  I mean, most people are happy to talk about the things that they are interested in, but I think both with over course-ising it (ooooh, now there's a terrible word that will never take off!), and often with us just expecting people to react badly to the news that we're Christian, that we can come across incredibly unnaturally.  Now I am more than happy to acknowledge that not everybody has the spiritual gift of evangelism (1 Corinthians 12), but just because I may not be blessed with a specific gift of helping, for example, that doesn't mean that I can't help pack the chairs away after our weekly church family gathering.  And more so for evangelism, because of verses like 1 Peter 3:15, where we are all called to "always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect."  And I'm relatively confident that for the vast majority of us, who have been through an AFES group, or go to a decent church, we ought to be incredibly well equipped to give a very clear answer to anyone who asks us about our faith in Jesus!

So how can we do this?  I think we need to just be normal, and talk to people about God, as we would also talk to them about other things/people that we love.  To paraphrase the advice of my friend Ben Pfahlert, it's best to try to let people know that we're Christian as early in the relationship as possible - even just mentioning that we went to church on the weekend if someone asks how your weekend was.  Getting it out there early makes it less awkward later on (I remember the amusing reaction of a work mate that I'd been having coffee with for quite a few weeks when I mentioned I was a Christian - she immediately tried to do a mental catalogue of all the things she'd ever said to me, in case I might have been offended!), and also sets you in their minds as someone they can possibly go to if they have questions about God etc (I got a sterling opportunity with the same work mate, some months later, to give a full explanation of exactly why I am a Christian).  

If we can work on not seeing evangelism as an added extra to the other things that we do, or to church life, but can talk to people about God normally and naturally, as the opportunity arises, I think we will make much greater inroads into sharing the gospel with our friends.  There's even an Ed Stetzer statistic that 61% of non-Christian people in their 20's would say yes if a friend offered to study the Bible with them!  Conversations may not always go super well, and we may not always see people turning to God, but it's got to be worth the effort.  And if we Jesus has given his very life for us, I think we can weather some potentially awkward conversations.  What do we really have to lose, when our friends potentially have everything to gain?  Let's just start talking!!!

Photo by Moyan Brenn on Flickr.

WAY More Flies with Vinegar!

We've been having a fruit fly problem in our kitchen recently.  It was driving me crazy.  Every time I went to the sink or reached for a sponge and small black cloud of fruit fly would alight and disperse around the kitchen, flying in their frustratingly unpredictable patterns.  They were also having a field day in our fruit bowl, laying their nasty little eggs in the fruit that was supposed to make us fit and healthy. 


 Initially I went for the swiping hand-clap technique of killing them, however it soon became evident that that just wasn't going to work. After a small amount of googling, out came the now tried and tested vinegar trap.  Basically, you put some vinegar in a bowl, cover it with cling wrap and then poke some holes in it with a skewer.  The flies smell the fermenting bouquet of eau de vinegar, crawl in through the tiny holes and then find that they can't get out again.  Simple. Easy. Smelly.


But I thought you were supposed to "catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar"?  Apparently not.  All this got me thinking about the nature of the gospel.  More specifically it really reminded me of the truth of 2 Corinthians 2:15-17 which says, “ For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing. To the one we are the smell of death; to the other, the fragrance of life. And who is equal to such a task? Unlike so many, we do not peddle the word of God for profit. On the contrary, in Christ we speak before God with sincerity, like men sent from God."  


I think a lot of times, when we really understand the seemingly abrasive nature of the gospel and it's call that none of us are good enough to please God, but that we have all fallen short of his glory and must rely entirely on Jesus' death on our behalf to be made right with God, we can seek to soften this when we share it with people. We can seek to sweeten it up by not explaining the starkness of our state before God if we choose to rule our own lives, or to downplay the hardships of the Christian life by laying on the honey that "if you follow Jesus then your life will be problem free".


In our society, where appearance is everything, as Christians, we are to resist the urge to sweeten the gospel truth.  Yes, we are to come before God with nothing and continually rely on Him to do everything to save us.  Yes, the Christian life will be hard and we should expect to be persecuted for following Christ.  But also, we are called to preach a true gospel.  A gospel in which we are counted to be co-heirs with Christ, given every spiritual blessing and saved eternally.  It's a message that is caustic to the rest of the world, but to those that catch it's scent, it is the sweetness of Life itself.

Photo by MightyBoyBrian on Flickr